[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/plusy-a-minusy-coming-outu-v-praci\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/plusy-a-minusy-coming-outu-v-praci\/","headline":"Plusy a m\u00ednusy coming outu v pr\u00e1ci","name":"Plusy a m\u00ednusy coming outu v pr\u00e1ci","description":"A\u010dkoliv jsem toho n\u00e1zoru, \u017ee by se osobn\u00ed a profesn\u00ed \u017eivot nem\u011bl m\u00edchat dohromady, n\u011bkter\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti je t\u0159eba skloubit. Pokud je \u010dlov\u011bk gay nebo lesba, p\u0159irozen\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed pot\u0159ebu to ozn\u00e1mit sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed, tedy proch\u00e1z\u00ed procesem zvan\u00fd „coming out“. \u0158\u00edci to sv\u00fdm zn\u00e1m\u00fdm, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u016fm a rodin\u011b je jedna v\u011bc. N\u011bkdy je to p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9, n\u011bkter\u00fdm je […]","datePublished":"2019-11-08","dateModified":"2023-06-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/64d58fab86512053c8bb518a6563e7284bb4a3422dc9af0106c3f39575364c7b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/64d58fab86512053c8bb518a6563e7284bb4a3422dc9af0106c3f39575364c7b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"fasade.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a361109_w3553_t1574536620.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a361109_w3553_t1574536620.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/plusy-a-minusy-coming-outu-v-praci\/","about":["Spole\u010dnost"],"wordCount":710,"articleBody":"A\u010dkoliv jsem toho n\u00e1zoru, \u017ee by se osobn\u00ed a profesn\u00ed \u017eivot nem\u011bl m\u00edchat dohromady, n\u011bkter\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti je t\u0159eba skloubit. Pokud je \u010dlov\u011bk gay nebo lesba, p\u0159irozen\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed pot\u0159ebu to ozn\u00e1mit sv\u00e9mu okol\u00ed, tedy proch\u00e1z\u00ed procesem zvan\u00fd „coming out“. \u0158\u00edci to sv\u00fdm zn\u00e1m\u00fdm, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u016fm a rodin\u011b je jedna v\u011bc. N\u011bkdy je to p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9, n\u011bkter\u00fdm je to naopak lhostejn\u00e9. Tak \u010di tak, sd\u011blit tento fakt sv\u00fdm koleg\u016fm v pr\u00e1ci m\u016f\u017ee s sebou n\u00e9st jist\u00e1 rizika a nebezpe\u010d\u00ed, nicm\u00e9n\u011b na druhou stranu to m\u00e1 i sv\u00e1 pozitiva. Nemohu s \u010dist\u00edm sv\u011bdom\u00edm \u0159\u00edci, co je lep\u0161\u00ed, proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1me jin\u00e9 spolupracovn\u00edky a \u0161\u00e9fy, kte\u0159\u00ed mohou na tuto skute\u010dnost zareagovat odli\u0161n\u011b. \u010clov\u011bk nikdy nev\u00ed, jak se k n\u011bmu ten druh\u00fd zachov\u00e1.Ot\u00e1zka „vyoutov\u00e1n\u00ed se“ koleg\u016fm je p\u0159itom jedno z mnoha nejprob\u00edran\u011bj\u0161\u00edch t\u00e9mat na poli homosexuality ve spole\u010dnosti. Pokud zrovna proch\u00e1z\u00edte t\u00edmto procesem a zva\u017eujete tuto pravdu \u0159\u00edci v\u0161em na pracovi\u0161ti, pevn\u011b douf\u00e1m, \u017ee v\u00e1m tato pozitiva a negativa s va\u0161\u00edm rozhodnut\u00edm pomohou. Pod\u00edvejme se nejprve na temnou str\u00e1nku v\u011bci. Jestli\u017ee o v\u00e1s na pracovi\u0161ti koluj\u00ed zv\u011bsti o tom, \u017ee nejste na holky, po potvrzen\u00ed t\u00e9to skute\u010dnosti se m\u016f\u017eete st\u00e1t ter\u010dem nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdch pozn\u00e1mek ze strany homofob\u016f a dal\u0161\u00edch odp\u016frc\u016f LGBT komunity. Krom\u011b toho, cel\u00e1 tato z\u00e1le\u017eitost se m\u016f\u017ee vymknout kontrole a t\u00edm p\u00e1dem se stanete ob\u011bt\u00ed \u0161ikany a velice sprost\u00fdch ur\u00e1\u017eek. Za p\u0159edpokladu, \u017ee se jedn\u00e1 o pouh\u00e9 spolupracovn\u00edky, m\u016f\u017eete si ofici\u00e1ln\u011b st\u011b\u017eovat a doufat v lep\u0161\u00ed z\u00edt\u0159ky, ale v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee zdrojem ve\u0161ker\u00e9ho z\u00e1porn\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u016f\u010di v\u00e1m je v\u00e1\u0161 nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd, nem\u00e1te p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 na v\u00fdb\u011br. Jste-li introvert a dosud jste si u\u017e\u00edval klidu a pohodl\u00ed, proto\u017ee si v\u00e1s nikdo nev\u0161\u00edmal, po t\u00e9 co v\u0161ichni zjist\u00ed, \u017ee se odli\u0161ujete, se sv\u00fdm klidem se m\u016f\u017eete rozlou\u010dit. Od t\u00e9to chv\u00edle se k v\u00e1m v\u0161ichni budou chovat odta\u017eit\u011b, ve va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnosti nejist\u011b, a tak\u00e9 se na v\u00e1s budou neust\u00e1le up\u00ednat opovr\u017een\u00e9 pohledy. Hlavn\u00edm t\u00e9matem jejich diskuz\u00ed se stanete vy. Na pracovi\u0161ti by m\u011bla b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e1 atmosf\u00e9ra. Zdrojem t\u00e9mat k diskuz\u00edm je osobn\u00ed \u017eivot. Mnoho mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een si pov\u00edd\u00e1 o sv\u00fdch \u00falovc\u00edch, ale nikdy nezach\u00e1z\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 do detail\u016f. Pro\u010d vy byste m\u011bli rozhla\u0161ovat to, s k\u00fdm jste spali a co v\u0161e jste d\u011blali, kdy\u017e o nich nev\u00edte nic? P\u0159ipravte se i na tyto typy dotaz\u016f. Sv\u011btlou str\u00e1nkou je, \u017ee zastav\u00edte v\u0161echny pomluvy a teorie o tom, \u017ee jste homosexu\u00e1l. Potvrd\u00edte tuto pravdu a ve\u0161ker\u00fd proud hypot\u00e9z zaraz\u00edte. U\u017e nebudete muset lh\u00e1t o tom, kolik z\u00e1\u0159ez\u016f jste m\u011bli posledn\u00ed noc, jak\u00e1 byla va\u0161e p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b, nebo jak jste se potkali. Nebudete se kone\u010dn\u011b styd\u011bt p\u0159iv\u00e9st do pr\u00e1ce va\u0161eho p\u0159\u00edtele, ve\u0159ejn\u011b se dr\u017eet za ruku a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b se i l\u00edbat. Budete voln\u011b d\u00fdchat, proto\u017ee budete kone\u010dn\u011b moci b\u00fdt t\u00edm, k\u00fdm doopravdy jste. A co v\u00edc? Pokud jste single, m\u00e1te nad\u011bji, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eete objevit svou sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bnou l\u00e1sku, a t\u0159eba\u017ee i v pr\u00e1ci. Na z\u00e1v\u011br bych r\u00e1d zopakoval, \u017ee nechci nikomu ur\u010dovat, co m\u00e1 a nem\u00e1 d\u011blat. Ka\u017ed\u00fd se mus\u00ed rozhodnout s\u00e1m na z\u00e1klad\u011b pozorov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch koleg\u016f a nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdch. Pokud se bude jednat o homofoby, nen\u00ed dobr\u00fd n\u00e1pad p\u0159iznat barvu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.8\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Plusy a m\u00ednusy coming outu v pr\u00e1ci","item":"https:\/\/www.fasade.cz\/plusy-a-minusy-coming-outu-v-praci\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]